Sunday, February 01, 2009

Chick-lit Trivia Game

Hey guys, here's a fun contest/ game being hosted by Sandra Lopez on her website. Check it out!

The schedule is as follows:

Feb 1-Mary Castillo---"In Between Men"
Ends Feb 7

Feb 8-Lara Rios---"Becoming Americana"
Ends Feb 14

Feb 15-Caridad Ferrer---"Adios to my old life"
Ends Feb 21

Feb 22-Margo Candela---"Underneath it all"
Ends Feb 28

Here's how to play:
1. Go to Sandra's website at

2. Click on "Sandra's Online Book Club"

3. There, you will find a trivia question for that scheduled date based on the specified author's book. The answer will only be found in that book. Contestants will have a week to find the answer. A hint will be provided.

4. To submit an answer, simply click the link that will send you to the contest entry form. Fill it out and send it.

5. A winner will be chosen from the "correct answer" pile on each of the ending dates. The results will be announced the same day. Four winners will walk away with a $10 Borders gift card.

But wait, that's not all.....
There will also be a Grand Prize Winner announced on the very last day of February.

Grand Prize: A free autographed copy of Sandra's wonderful book, "Esperanza"

Here's how you could win the Grand Prize:
Along with each trivia question, Sandra will post a discussion question for that same book. Participants who share their comments by posting them on her book blog will automatcially be entered for a chance to win the grand prize. By posting on all four discussion questions, your chances of winning are four times greater! Please note that you may only post once for each question. Multiple posts will not be considered.

So head on over and good luck!


Monday, December 29, 2008

Latina Author Blog Tour

Look for another awesome blog tour starting on January 1st!! I'll be posting under my new pseudonym, Julia Amante:

I'll have a sample of my upcoming novel: Evenings at the Argentine Club so come check it out.

Here is the line up of authors:
January 1: Misa Ramirez
January2: Jamie Martinez Wood
January 3: Julia Amante
January 4: Berta Platas
January 5: Mary Castillo
January 6: Alisa Valdes Rodriguez
January 7: Margo Candela
January 8: Caridad Ferrer
January 9: Gabriella Hewitt
January 10: Tracy Montoya


Friday, May 23, 2008

How many of you live in the LA area? Is this crazy weather we're having or what? Last weekend the temperature was in the triple digits. Yesterday we had hail falling, tornado warnings in some areas (though I suspect it couldn't be anything like the real tornados in other states), an super cold wind. Very strange.

I'm enjoying all the Women, Words, and Wisdom blogs. I hope you are. Don't forget to check out Caridad Piniero today at

I'm writing at a coffee shop today, staying out of my house. I find it increasingly difficult to concentrate these days with my family around. And since I'm forfeiting my writing day tomorrow to take my girl scout troop to the El Capitan Theater in Hollywood tomorrow to see Prince Caspian, I figured I better get double the work done today.

I've decided that I live in a very uninspiring place. I read about writers that can walk in the forest or on the beach before they begin their writing day. How wonderful that would be. Although my neighborhood is nice, I don't have ready access to nature. Coffee shops with classical music aren't quite the same thing, but they seem to work for me.

Of course, we have to find the inspiration within ourselves. This is what we've been bloging about, right?

You all have a great weekend!


Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Barbara Ferrer's Blog Winner

The winner of the iTunes gift card awarded by Barbara Caridad Ferrer is:


Congratulations! Contact Barbara with your mailing information.

And remember to visit Mayra Calvani’s blog tomorrow to see who wins the Starbucks gift card. And of course to read another wonderful Women, Words, and Wisdom post.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Wisdom Applied To Writing

Wisdom comes from many sources. Sometimes you seek it out, and other times it just shows up. If you’re open to learning from life, an experience may teach you an important lesson; a book can provide insight; even a song might awaken something inside you. As a writer who uses words to entertain and perhaps even inspire women, I’d like to share some of the wisdom I’ve learned that has helped make me a better writer. The three most valuable life lessons that I apply to writing daily are to be persistent, to focus on my work, and to enjoy the process.

Persistence - At one of the writer’s conferences that I attended as a recently published author, I was chatting with another author who had been published longer than I had, and she offered me the secret of being successful as an author. She said something like, "Lara, the secret to making it in this business is to never give up." Very simple. And very true. This wasn’t the first time I’d heard that concept. Stories about well known authors having been rejected a million times and finally hitting it big are familiar to most writers. But I thought about this comment and let it sink in.

We all attend writer’s conferences looking for the secret. Will it be learning to develop the perfect plot? Maybe we can find out what publishers are looking for this year? Perhaps a workshop to improve characterization is the answer? Or is it writing flawless dialogue? All that is important, of course, but even with all that, you can fail to get that perfect book published. There may be a similar story recently published and publishers aren’t interested in another. Or technically everything may be wonderful, but the timing may be off. We never know why a book will get rejected. We can’t control that part. We can, however, stick with it.

In a book called the ARC OF AMBITION by James Champy, the author tells the story of Russian Czar, Peter the Great, who wanted to modernize Russia and open a water way to the West. He attacks Sweden and loses the first battle, but he doesn’t give up. Nine years later after reorganizing and retraining his armies, and bringing in experts, he is victorious against Sweden and Russia overtakes them as the leading Baltic power. To quote the above mentioned book, A defeat calls for reorganization, not retirement.

Few of us become overnight successes. But, by sticking to our goals, we produce book after book, get better with each one, and touch people’s lives with our stories. By being persistent, we will become more familiar with the industry, we will attend more workshops and learn to develop those writer skills we need. We will become stronger writers. Like Peter the Great, by taking the time to improve our weak areas and not giving up, we can be victorious

This applies to all areas of your life. A marriage. A friendship. A diet. And your career as an author. If it’s something that you love, that’s important to you, be persistent. Don’t give up.

Focus - Years ago, I wrote a book about a race car driver. Sadly, it was never released. The line closed while my book as still on the printing press, and I still have the cover flat for the book that never was. But I learned something very important about focus while writing this book. I went to the Ontario Speedway and decided to actually drive a race car. It was fun, and I was excited. But I was also sort of scared. Nevertheless, I got in the car when the time came, and a trained driver sat next to me. He explained what I would do, and he told me to remain aware of what was going on around me, but to focus on where I was going. The track seemed flat, but it was not. At one point in a turn, the track slanted up and I was supposed to head straight to the wall, make the turn and then head down toward the inside of the track. I agreed to follow all the instructions, but as I drove, I found myself getting distracted by the other cars. My mind focused on the way I was strapped inside the car and how constricted I felt, and on the helmet on my head that made me feel like I couldn’t see. I was anxious about the wall and slowed down when I was supposed to maintain my speed and drive toward it. But I was afraid I’d crash. A couple of times the driver beside me had to hold the steering wheel and remind me to focus on where I wanted to go. But, I have to say that it was extremely difficult to put all the distractions aside and focus on what I was supposed to do. I gained a new respect for those drivers who race professionally. I ran ten laps -- they have to focus for hundreds.

That experience taught me that in order to accomplish anything, you have to focus. In order to write a 300 or 400 page book, I have to put aside all thoughts of my children, and the dirty house, and the bills that I’m not sure how I’m going to pay. All my attention has to be on the story and the characters in my book. And when that focus isn’t there, it shows in my writing.

The outside world can intrude on the magic of story telling. If you’re focused on the market or writing what’s hot, or meeting someone else’s expectation, you won’t do your work justice. All the outside disturbances have to be blocked, and it has to be just you and your writing. That’s the only way you can connect with your story and your characters and write the book that’s inside you.

Enjoy the process – I’m not a person who enjoys the process. When I travel, I want to get where I’m going. When I’m writing, I want to finish the book. A huge character fault, and one that I struggle to overcome. Because the process -- the journey of any trip is the point of the whole thing. In the actual writing of a book, in working out the plot, in taking the characters through their arcs is where we as writers grow.

I once sat in the audience of the Maui writer’s conference listening to Terry McMillian talk about her writing life. Someone in the audience asked about the characters in Waiting to Exhale. She immediately cut the person off, stating that she didn’t want to talk about those characters, because she was "so over" them. I was a little shocked by her response. But I understand now that Terri had gone through the process and grown as an author, and didn’t want to step back into that world anymore. It really was over for her. As authors, we should understand that as we take the reader through the experiences in the book, we are also on a journey. If a story is calling for you to write it, there’s a reason. Pay attention. We are learning and growing throughout the story. For this reason, we should enjoy every step in the writing process. The research, the initial draft, the re-writing, the editing, and finally, the end product – the book.

This last one might be the most important. Enjoy the book. I’ve found that I don’t! Like Terri, I’m done with it, and on to the next story. I don’t enjoy the promotion or the rehashing of the story. This wasn’t the case with my first couple of books. I loved promoting "my baby", and sitting for book signings. What an honor! But in the last couple of years, it has become exhausting. I’ve asked myself why. Am I crazy? But I learned that it’s a common feeling that upon reaching your desired goal you can find yourself feeling empty. Many people work so hard to achieve their goals that when they get them, they find they don’t enjoy them. The dream house or the ideal job or the big bank account doesn’t mean what they thought it would. Why? I think it comes from not enjoying the process. The reward at the end can’t be fully enjoyed, because there was no pleasure along the way. Focusing on the final goal without enjoying each step leads to an exhausting and an almost anti-climatic feeling about the end product.

If, like me, you are saying, "easily said, but not easy to practice", here is a website that tells you how to enjoy the process.

I love to be inspired and I feel that this life is full of wise people, brilliant books, great stories. Share a story, a quote, a word, a book, a person who has brought wisdom into your life with me. You will be entered to win a $10 Starbucks gift card. The winner will be announced tomorrow on Mayra Calvani’s blog (

Check back here later tonight (Wednesday evening) to find out who was the winner of Barbara Caridad Ferrer's prize.

I look forward to hearing from you all!


Monday, May 19, 2008

New Blog Tour!

I'm happy to announce that in honor of May being Latino Book month, a group of fabulous Latina authors and myself are lauching a ten day blog tour! You'll be treated to wonderful stories, essays, or non-fiction articles, and wonderful prizes.

Mary Castillo will get us started today at:

The entire line up is as follows:

May 19 - Mary Castillo(
May 20 - Barb Ferrer(
May 21 – Lara Rios(
May 22 – Mayra Calvani(
May 23 – Caridad Scordato(
May 24 – Jamie Martinez Wood(
May 25 – Berta Platas(
May 26 – Tracy Montoya(
May 27 – Kathy Murillo(
May 28 – Misa Ramirez(



Wednesday, April 02, 2008

What is the American Dream?

Having finished the rewrite on my upcoming novel, I've finally found some time to do some reading in all formats: books, magazines, and internet news.

I came across an interesting article called Deporting the American dream.

Curious, I read it, and found it was about the Salvadoran deportees, and their re-acculturation into Salvadoran society. First, I have to say, I'm completely clueless about the whole deportation thing. Mainstream media makes it sound like this never happens. So I read on, wondering, what does happen once an immigrant is deported. How do they reestablish themselves into a country they might not have lived in for years?

The article answers some of these questions, quoting deportees on how difficult it is to get used to a different, non-American way of life. But, mostly the article talks about how they have taken American ways back to their country, and how they are unaccepted by their society. Yet admired by some as well.

But what are these "American ways"? A gang culture. Tattoos and hip hop.

This is what they took back. After reading this, I couldn't help but question what those things have to do with the "American Dream". If that is all they were exposed to in America, and the only things they were able to take away with them, our country is in serious trouble. Used to be that people would think of progress, and a positive work ethic when they thought of America. When my father would think about returning to Argentina and leaving America, the things he knew he would miss were things like being able to get a job anytime he needed one and make money for his family. Or having access to the newest and best technology. Then of course there were material things that he had gotten used in this country that would be harder to come by in Argentina. And if he had returned, he would have been an asset to his birth country. They would have been lucky to get an citizen with American traits back.

Now, it seems, Latin American countries dread getting their Americanized countrymen back.